Dating the married man

If he ever does move beyond the victim role and becomes free and clear — and if you are still available — then perhaps give this a second look.

We started our website in March 1996 as a hobby, mostly as a way to meet other married and single swingers online.

He bought his wife over from another country, then she changed.

He has not had sex with her for over a year, and she does not want to go back to her country. We doubt he is keeping her as up to date about you, as he “appears” to be keeping you informed about her. If you pursue this romance you are implicitly endorsing a model for behavior in life and love.

You know those girls without morals and good sense who date married men?It plays on a prospective sexual companion’s sympathies and eliminates any sense of competition. It also portrays the guy as a hapless victim — rather than a calculating perpetrator. Then we need to ask you why you are attracted to a guy who acts like he is a victim? So how do you imagine he will be transformed into an upright, responsible, solid and reliable guy down the road, when it’s your turn to play the “wife” role in his drama? Talk to the countless women who wanted to believe in that fairy tale, too. How do you feel when the next “other woman” enters, stage left?Do you know the improbability of acheiving a solid relationship with a guy who acts like a victim? What exactly would bring about such a remarkable change in him? Now let’s look at your potential role in such an affair. In starting new relationships, we advise you to choose guys who are totally free and clear.I knew that I would never ever do that because those girls have zero self respect.Lord knows my Gates Millennium Scholar ass was definitely too intelligent to be one of them.